To ALL My QUEENS!

QUEENS ONLY

Hey Queens (& to my Kings that stop by),

Thank You , 

for stopping by & not being shy. You stepped into my world & only GOD knows why?
But I know you are here for a reason & I don't mean to be preaching.
I just want you to know that your LIFE has so much meaning.
It has so much value that you can definetely add to. This world. This chaos.
That we've sort of adapted to.
Day in & day out just living the norm.
Not believing or trusting we were created for MUCH more.
Every gift within, secret hidden talent. There's something meant for you to do with all of it.
So embrace who you are! Please RESPECT the journey. Respect the process.
Trust me, Queen it's the path to success. It's the road unheard of that leads to gateways of gold.
When obtaining more than money is the ultimate goal.
See a Queen knows her value is not tied up in material things.
& that we ALL want to get wifed but still it's more to life than a ring.
See a real Queen knows that the secret to her beauty is in NOT in between her thighs;
nor is it in her breast but IN her chest where her heart beat lies.
It's about that woman's heart, her mind, her character & her soul.
See some of us Queens have taken alot of guys' souls.
& got ourselves entangled..some of us in all types of love triangles.
With guys & girls. Lust & hurt. Feeling rejected. Disrespected. Dirtier than dirt.
Feeling unworthy sometimes forgetting how that heart bearts.
Or letting the pain from within make that light inside go dim.
Oh, but baby YOU CAN'T! You just simply can not. See it's okay that they called you a thot.
That they called you a hoe. Not knowing that those "hoe"skills really made you a PRO.
They don't know that the exact things sent to cause you pain.
Are the exact same reason why you still dance thru the rain.
So see that's why I tell you to embrace the journey. Your mistakes. Flaws & All.
You were "Built Ford Tough" Queen. DESPITE IT ALL

Head Up 

QUEEN 

Refuse To Let Your Crown Fall!

So I just want to encourage ALL MY QUEENS that may be going thru a season like me where LITERALLY everything around you is changing. I really can't say that it's NOT for the good but ultimately it's for the best. Prayers are being answered. Blessings are being given. & the Lessons are coming too. Some of these lessons are the ones that I've seen over & over & OVER again (sad to say) But clearly, these are the areas where I seriously have a problem & where I really need help. If you've been following my blog than you know I'm not making this up. Men & People (in general) have kinda always been in some way, shape, form or fashion apart of my downfalls. & NEVER to place blame anywhere else for MY ISSUES but I do know my weaknesses & triggers. Thankfully, I'm also learning to identify them quicker & how to deal with them. This is a crucial season for many of us. Especially the Body of Christ as a whole & the men & women who are going thru MASSIVE changes in your life this season. I just want you to know that

1. YOU ARE NOT ALONE
2. GREATER IS ON THE HORIZON
3. IT'S WORTH PAIN

Yes, Yes, & Girlllll YESSSS!!!

You're not alone. IF you have the right crew around you,at least ONE if not all of you are going thru the same thing & you guys have to be there for each other right now. Something I've learned is that NO MATTER how strong you are "THE STRONG ONE" gets weak & needs support too at times. That's why it's important to check on your friends & those around. No one should have to suffer in silence when you have people around you.

So now that you are & your peeps are in formation & know what's going on around you. Get in formation & stay there because you have to be prepared for what's to come. There are so many amazing & out of this world oppurtunities coming to everyone who is ready & willing to receive this greater that's on the way. First of all, "DO YOU BELIEVE IT?" & have you made the necessary room & adjustments to receive it. Just like when you are shopping for new clothes, some of us clear up space in our closets to make room for what we are about to bring home from the store. We have to do the same thing in the closets of our minds & our hearts. If I want a new way of thinking & being it means that I have to get out of my old ways & learn/do something new & different.

The pain. The tears. The uncomfortable feelings you have to endure are all going to be worth it in the end. I just keep trying to remind myself that what I want requires for me to do all of these things that MOMENTARILY I don't want to do. I know that whatever I put in is going to be put out. So if I don't go hard about my success, I can't expect my success to go hard for me. You get what you give basically. & I deserve the best & I gotta get it. Sweat, Pain, & Tears! When you've been down for so long & not even all the way down but just not living up to your FULL POTENTIAL, I'd like to think that at some point something in you triggers you. & from that point forward, you know you'll never be the same. See I've had plenty of light bulbs pop off in my head but something about this one just isn't the same.